What lies ahead 2

I once said in this blog that nothing in life lasts forever, and that we should
not delve into the past or look into the future. I dont really know why I said it
but in a way I was afraid of it as well. I was afraid of the future, because
future means change. I like the way things are right now, and I liked the
way things were back then but I guess everyone is susceptible to life
changes. Changes are barriers to many things, they get in the way of
our way of life, but it does not mean that we cant change change. Yes, that
wasnt a typo, Im talking about changing change. Modifying it in a way to
accomodate us and suit it towards the way we want it. However in order
to do this, you require some motivation and support. Its obvious that not
everyone can go through change alone, someone else needs to be there
for you when it does come. If you face change alone, you realise that you
will be more alone than ever.

You cant expect things to be the way you want it to be, you cant expect
life to be a bed of thornless roses. But you can make things the way you
want it to be, all that is needed is a push or a drive of some sort to carry
forward. If things dont turn out the way you expect it to be, you can
always make use of what you already have, instead if giving up everything
all together. Nothing in life ever comes easy for anyone, life isnt fair to
anyone. If you give up when something seems almost impossible to you,
you might as well give up on everything else. It is strange how us humans
can strive so hard to achieve our goals, but when it comes down to something
else important such as keeping someone by your side, they just barely even
try.

It is infact very depressing when you look into the future, because it only
seems bleak and colourless. But that is only because some of us look at it
that way. If we always expect the worse to happen, and make our own
conclusions about a negative future, then our future will turn out as a
really lousy one. You reap what you sow and the future will turn out the
way you want it to be. However, not all hope is lost. If you look into the
future more positively, and be more optimistic, it will turn out the way you
want it to be. This one of the steps one must take in order to change change.

So babe, why choose to be sad for what is about to come? Why cant we
look into things more positively from now on? I cant be the only one that
is being optimistic. I need you as well, to be there by my side encouraging
me to look forward to what lies ahead for both us. I know that I said that
nothing lasts forever, but you changed my perspective. Without you I
would have never seen things that way. I would have always been the
negative person I always was, I am no longer the pessimist I always was.
Im so sorry for making you think the way I did before. Im just too afraid
to admit that I was so terrified by the change that might happen to us.
But im not afraid anymore, because you are the only one I rather be with,
and my only biggest fear, more than anything else is losing you. Im so so,
sorry for all the things Ive said, I wish I could take it all back and replaced
them with nicer words. I know that you are not in a really good mood right
not, but babe, can you atleast think about it? Will you please forgive me?

I love you

Pembetulan

Dear friends, today I shall take a drastic step to resolve a problem we
have been having for a very long time. We'll it isnt exactly a very big
problem but Im just gonna help anyways. This post will be dedicated
to curing cinaism(cina.ism). Well what is cinaism you ask? Its when
our beloved english language is spoken wrongly in a way where it
changes the meaning(not the grammar). The grammar is for your
english teacher to correct not me. Im not here to poke fun at
anybody but just to make people aware of the mistakes they make
without even noticing it and hopefully they will change it.

Well for one thing, those who have this cinaism problem, they tend
to assume that words that sound the same have the same meaning.
Im not sure where they get this idea but let me show you some examples.

OMG~~~ I have splits ants!
The correct way of saying this would be:
Omg, I have split ends.

I will have a burger instant la~~~ ^.^
The correct way of saying this would be:
I'll have a burger instead

WhAt SnAKES You HaVE GoT~~~?
The correct way of saying this would be:
What snacks do you have?

I have put in so much afford, but all in vains leh, haihx..
The correct way of saying this would be:
I have put in so much effort, but it was all in vain, sigh.

I hurt what you said earlier, plx away!
The correct way of saying this would be:
I heard what you said earlier, please go away!

There are more seriously, if I write further it will become case sensitive lol.
Anyways those with cinaism also tend to make words plural for no apprent
reason. Im not sure why they do this but let me show you guys some and
give the appropriate corrections.

HEY GUYS ^___^ I really appreciates your helping*~*~
The correct way of saying this would be:
Hey guys, I really appreciate your help.

Thank for your helps, hehe.
The correct way of saying this would be:
Thanks for your help, hehe.

I will going backs later a bit.
The correct way of saying this would be:
I will go back a bit later.

ThaNk GodS My ExAM OvEr oLeDI!
The correct way of saying this would be:
Thank God my exam is over already.

Well, thats not all. Some sentences are just way beyond repair, to the point
where the mistakes identified are too many. These errors are quite common
and are commonly seen around.

I am so BORINGGGGGGGGgg
The correct way of saying this would be:
Im bored.

The thing about the sentence above is, the meaning has been completely changed.
You are trying to say that you're bored, but the sentence really means that you
are trying to tell the world that you're a boring person. Dont get it wrong.

My time table is so screwed up, but I try synchronise!
The correct way of saying this would be:
no correction available

One thing about those with cinaism is that when they watch a movie or hear
someone say a nice sounding word, they tend to use it without understanding
its meaning or the way it is used. It is a good effort that some people try
impressing others by using big words, but if these big words are used wrongly
and used in improperly structured sentences they are of no value and you make
yourself look silly because its a waste of a perfectly big word.

Well, I shall stop here. I shall once again stress that this post was never inteneded
to poke fun at anyone, haha who am I kidding?! LOL! Well, I hoped it helped. The
sentences above were taken from wall posts and blogs, these sentences were edited
to prevent humiliation of others. Spank you.

Heavy World

When you are out somewhere public, like in campus, by the streets,
in the shopping malls, or wherever and watch the vast numbers of
daily strangers that pass by, do you ever feel curious about their
stories? Well, lets take a look from this point of view. Everyone has
their own story about their life, nobody's life is ever boring or dull,
everyone has been through life experiences and have their own
stories to either tell or keep it to themselves.

For instance, you see an old frail woman by the market side, do you
ever wonder what's her story? What someone as old as her has been
through, the amount of happy times she had, the amount of heartbreaks
she went through, the amount of people she met, the amount of people
she has lost, the change she saw through time, the experience she had
with someone special or the time she spent alone and much much more.
Sometimes I feel this way whenever I see my grandma. Of course my
grandma wasnt always my grandma, she used to be a teenager too. She
might have been through the things Ive went through before, she might
have deep dark secrets as well like everyone else.

Ever wondered what someone's story is like? People like our friends,
our parents, our lecturers, the guy who delivers your newspaper, the
guy who owns your favourite restaurant, your maid and people who
we see everyday but never took notice of. Everyone has their own
story, experiences and secrets. I believe if you walk down the
crowded street and just pick a random stranger out of a crowd and
get him or her to tell you their life story. Im sure it will definitely
beat any drama movie you have ever watched. Regardless of how
boring the person's job is or how mundane his life is, there was a point
in that person's life that he actually went through something great
or sad.

By now you're probably wondering why Im writing all this bullshit
out. What Im trying to say is, try looking at your own life story. Reflect
on what you have been through and you would realise that life is great
isnt it? Try looking digging through your memory and bring out all the
life stories you had. It wont apply for everyone because they might have
a bad past, but look at the present, isnt the future beautiful? Even at my age
I will probably be able to tell you loads of stories, the happy times Ive been
through, the sad times Ive been through, interesting things that happened
to me, people who I have met, the amount of times Ive felt love, the amount
of times Ive been through heartache and the list goes on. My point is, if you
think your life is boring now just wait and see, more stories will come your
way.